To be honest this does not surprise me at all, but I say it all the time.
It's too bad that they did not address the problem and make you happy before you left, that is unusual IMO.
Especially since I think you were paying OOP.
I am also surprised they would say it to a customer that is still actually having a meal there.
I have had similar discussion with someone in France, Italy (Alfredos) and recently Mexico but always after the meals and on the way out.
He probably felt comfortable because you were European.
I have also found discussing soccer and their home countries with these folks seems to get them to drop their guard.
I had a very somewhat similar discussion in France the last time I ate there a few years back, but on the way out.
I was in Paris when France won the world cup and I talked to the manager about my experience there. I was then able to get him to discuss things about the restaurant he would not otherwise and the decline in the quality of the food.
(BTW, the cheese thing in the US really annoys me. I want real goat cheese, not the stuff they are giving us. I need to go to Canada for a weekend again)
One other thing about France. I recall they had to take things of the menu because of the
DDP. I do not recall what the item was (sorry it was 4 years ago), but it was expensive and people ordered it not knowing what it was because it was the most expensive thing. They would then send it back and get something else. This got to be too expensive so they dumbed down the menu a bit.
That has lead us to the current situation. The food is usually OK, but rarely great and the staff is unhappy with the quality of what they are serving IMO.
The escargot is nothing like it was 5 years ago.
At Alredo's I talked about my trips to Rome and Milan and when I saw Italy in the 94 World cup against Spain. We then discussed some of the issues there since the DDP started. They left not too long after that. They were also irate with customers that asked for grated cheese on the fettuccini alfredo. It already has the perfect amount. They were annoyed with "Americans that want grated cheese on their chicken parmesan." They were annoyed with "people who want pepper and salt without tasting things." They had a really bad attitude in general. I liked the place but it is probably good that they are gone.
Very Recently I had a long discussion with someone in Mexico about Chivas USA and Soccer in the US. Eventually I mentioned the poor quality of the food in Mexico and they agreed. Then then told me that the waiters were not happy with it and that was why the service was so bad. He even told me that the restaurant had been reprimanded by Disney 2 months earlier. He would be quite happy to see some Mexican Street food options on the menu, but the Chefs will not make tamales, they are Chefs not street vendors. He also discussed the amounts that they are reimbursed for the DDP and its affect on things.
I gave up complaining to Disney a long time ago.
The DDP is very popular but has been the death of innovation and quality in most of the Disney Dinning locations IMO.
In the end your experience reminds me of an episode of Fawlty Towers (best Comedy Series ever IMO).
Someone tries to complain to Fawlty and he ends up agreeing and complaining back.
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Mr. Arrad: Excuse me.
Basil Fawlty: Yes?
Mr. Arrad: Look, we've been waiting here for about half an hour now, I mean I gave the waiter our order...
Basil Fawlty: Oh, *him*. He's hopeless, isn't he?
Mr. Arrad: Yes, well I don't wish to complain, but when he does bring something he's got it wrong.
Basil Fawlty: You think I don't know? I mean, you only have to eat here. We have to live with it. I had to pay his fare all the way from Barcelona, but you can't get the staff you see. It's a nightmare.
Mrs. Arrad: You were supposed to be complaining to *him*.