can someone tell me why?

[riccio13]

i feel like everyone on vmk hates me everybody has their own little trust bond with certain players and share their valuables like inferno and green flips why does no one trust me i asked to borrow an item and i get the fastest no come up. why, i never did anything to anyone on vmk and i am a cl for heaven's sake u should be able to trust me,just because i dont have inferno or green flips does not mean u can't trust me jeez i feel so disliked. i mean if i was a guy that is reported for all these things and is known around vmk for being a bad dude then ok i can understand but i am not a bad dude so my question is why????????

 

[Captain Brain]

Im sort of having the same problem.I feel like when I talk everyone hits my ignore button.(I would be lost without Royal Toad or wdwr to listen you rock guys!)Well,I just go chat with my friends ewhom I know will talk to me.

 

[Loves Disney]

Don't worry. You will make friends. Just remember to be very social and very nice to everyone. Also, creating games is a great way in bring new people in. Joke around with people and let them know that you like to have fun.

 

[Califgirl]

Well, first of all, remember that CL_ does not mean that you have any special powers or are entitled to any special trust by players. I was 'swindled' by a CL who made a very one sided trade with me when I was new and didn't know better. That stays with me even though most CL_'s are very nice.
Secondly Riccio, I seem to remember that you have a habit of jumping on trade threads and taking the offers that were made to someone else. You even did it to one of my threads, so I know of what I speak. That does not engender trust.

Don't take the "no you can't borrow" personally. I don't let my friends borrow, so it is less likely that most VMKer's would let casual acquaintances borrow. What's the guarantee that the item would actually be returned?