I also find many DVC members over value their importance to Disney, exhibiting the entitlement mentality far too often.
This is an excellent point, and I'm sure I have drifted across this line occasionally, despite knowing full well the corporate culture and position the executives have for the guests (in general).
In fact, DVC seems to fit most closely with Walt's initial idea to the Florida legislature, in that WDW would have "residents" to fulfill the mandate of the Reedy Creek district charter, but these "residents" would have no municipal rights as a citizen. Instead, the district would be governed by the corporation, and the "residents" would be obligated to accept the mandates handed down to them.
DVC offers deeded property, providing a consist set of owners that do not live in the district, but own property in it. By default, these "residents" (aka DVC owners) would abdicate their rights of governing to a representative body (the DVC board), since they couldn't possibly be burdened with the day-to-day requirements of the local community. Thus the corporation is in charge, and the citizens are generally ok with it.
To loop it back to Dean's argument, as DVC owners, we feel a sense of ownership and community in WDW, since we purchased property and have a legal document affording us certain rights as property owners. As such, many owners feel they have the same voice (and rights) as they do at home, which likely causes this sense of importance and entitlement at WDW.
However in reality (as we of the Dis DVC community know), this is false since we do abdicate our rights to a representative board to govern on our behalf. In theory, we are able to affect change via the election of board members, but it would take an extremely significant percentage of the member population to project the same message. In the interim, we allow the WDC to do what it wants on our behalf, fulfilling Walt's dream of corporate autonomy with a class of citizens, which reinforce their argument to keep Reedy Creek as a separate district.
On a related note, given the point of view I espouse above, I am actually surprised the WDC would permit actual homeowners within the district and on WDW property. This seems as though it will eventually hold the WDC accountable to a class of citizens that will have legal authority to challenge their mandates and directives.