Thanks for all the helpful suggestions and back and forth conversations! At least I know what to expect!
Funny thing is, for people that have an overpowering fear of something, statistics mean nothing. My brain knows the statistics, but my brain also knows that things happen. It is the "things happen" part that pushes the statistics part out of the way! I would guess we all have something that we fear, something that is statistically not going to happen, but we fear it nonetheless. Trying to face the fear and deal with it is what gets us through!
I would prefer to drive, we love the drive, and it is about a 22 hour drive for us. However, I am traveling alone with my teenage daughter, and do not desire to drive that distant by myself. Plus, I don't do well in a strange city's traffic with trucks. Just not a calm person under stress. But I don't mind going 95mph on I-75 thru GA/FL!
I have flown before, but was really hoping to alleviate my flying anxiety this time with the fear of flying apps, but must resign myself that even if they say to listen to them during take-off, it isn't going to happen!
Trashy magazines are fine for me at other times, but at take-off, I fear doing anything remotely in the realm of "sinful".

I am bargaining with God that whole time, and looking at hot man pictures (isn't that the purpose of those magazines?

) might work against me in the God bargaining.
I don't knit or crochet, though perhaps I should start, because then I could probably subdue a terrorist more easily. Hmm, might be a good idea! Although with the adrenaline I have going through me whilst on the plane, I am pretty sure I could overpower anyone with my bare hands!
At least on the way home from Disney, I will have my best friend, who is a pilot, sitting next to me! She has already been warned that she will be expected to talk to me during the whole take-off.
Thanks again for clearing up the whole Ipod dilemma for me. I shall take earplugs just in case, and ask if I can wear them. In the end, I have managed to fly before, I will manage it again, I just don't like it, and was sooo hoping to be able to use a calming agent this time, but oh well, just have to grasp that armrest and deal with it!