ballarinamom
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- Jan 15, 2007
Maybe make some PS at some restaurants without telling them. Then if everything is crowded and everyone is hungry- SURPRISE!!! You can always cancel the PS
How close in age are these girls to your children? I think the younger girl might feel quite left out if she's not able to go with 'the girls' especially her big sister. Would it bother you to ride some smaller rides or is it all thrill rides for your family? Can you teach her parents about 'kid swap' for things she doesn't want to or can't ride? It might slow you down a little more, but it would be a kindness to share some Disney secrets like that with your friends.They have 2 girls, 11 and 6 1/2. The younger one is very small stature so she may not be able to do many of the bigger rides, while her older sister loves the big rides. It may work to split up and say we will take the older one with us to do one or two of the bigger rides while you do something with the younger one.
This would actually be great. My family could do the fast and furious touring in the early morning and then we could all slow down and meet them mid morning without feeling like we are missing stuff or that we are rushing them. I may find a way to "suggest" this for the 2nd or 3rd days we are there. I know the first day we will all want to be together to start our adventure!If they don't want to get the park early, tell them you will meet them their and they can call you when they get to the park.
This definitely sounds doable. I do something similar with my kids now to help guide them to choices that are acceptable but still allowing them to make the final decision.See if you can stealth plan...kind of steer them in the right direction. "One of the big rides you have to do is Pirates of the Caribbean. Why don't we get fast passes for that then we can come back and do that whenever you want with almost no line. After we get the passes we can go to (some nearby ride 1 or some nearby ride 2), Your choice..
This is actually a great thing for me to keep in mind! As much as there vacation style is not mine, mine is not theirs either. And we do all have fun when we are together so I am confident that everything will work out in the end.This is really just a personality type difference. For as annoying it is to you to have everything open, they feel trapped by having it planned. That is why I am suggesting giving them the illusion of having everything open.
How close in age are these girls to your children? I think the younger girl might feel quite left out if she's not able to go with 'the girls' especially her big sister. Would it bother you to ride some smaller rides or is it all thrill rides for your family? Can you teach her parents about 'kid swap' for things she doesn't want to or can't ride? It might slow you down a little more, but it would be a kindness to share some Disney secrets like that with your friends.
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Try to relax and slow down. There are lots of people involved in this trip, I'm sure there will be lots of compromises from everyone.
Enjoy the magic!