hi all. just a couple of questions, please. i understand that communal tables are set up rather than individual ones for each party. if you were facing the stage, are the tables positioned across from left to right or are they perpendicular to the stage? (side to side or front to back) are there any bad seats in the house? also, if the food is served family style, is each table expected to share from "communal platters" or do they bring indivdual platters for each party? if anyone out there can decipher these questions, please help! thanks in advance