our splurge is a nite at a b&b (off season..$135 weeknights) where we get a room wiht a king size bed, woodburning fireplace, 2person jacuzzi...with the room ya get afternoon tea and made to order breakfast delivered to yer room on a silver tray. Can't beat it for my money!
we go down and drive along the beaches, explore Newport, then after dark, we lounge around and read or snuggle. Just enjoy time AWAY from work (dh is a doctor and even at home, he's always working...I have to take him away to get him to stop).