November is a great time also. And the Food and Wine Festival is still going on. We were watching our video last night from when we in WDW this past November (Thanksgiving week and the week after). I love the way it is decorated for the holidays and I want all red accents for my wedding so that would be perfect. We also watched the Candlelight Processional and IllumiNations (with the Holiday ending) and would love to have my guests experience this. First week in December (right after Thanksgiving) would be great for this.
I was thinking of a Monday or Tuesday. This way people could come down Friday night or Saturday - we could do our Welcome/Rehersal dinner on Saturday - have Sunday to relax and get last minute things done (if any) and then have the ceremony on Monday. This way hopefrully less time people have to take off work. If they want to go back home Tuesday - they would only have to take 2 days off work. Or hopefully most would try to stay most of the week. We have been together 14 years so I really want to experience WDW with all my friends and family and maybe just a little bit of alone time for the two of us.
Right now we live in South Brunswick but I am from Flushing/Bayside and my boyfriend is from Middle Village/Glendale area.
I am sure if we had the wedding up here it would be more like 150 - thats why I like a destination wedding - not as many people. We went to a wedding New Years Day on Long Island. There were at least 160 people in a space for about 130. "Each table had 12 people and we were really in tight. Once you sat down you could not get up - there was no walking around and the dance floor was really small. The bride said it would be really tight and more people said yes then she expected to. I think the only thing she did all night was walk around from table to table saying hello to everyone. I don't think she enjoyed her wedding at all. Not how I want mine to be.
Anyway, thanks to all fror all the great info on these boards.
Linda