I'm so obsessed with planning for WDW but I don't know where to start with DL. I'm a little disappointed I can't book dining online - what's up with that?? Can someone help me with where to start on planning? (As an FYI, it'll be me, DH, 6yo DS, 3yo DD, and an infant, we have park hoppers, and plan on staying on property the whole trip.)
Great questions!

First let's help you avoid one of the WDW vet's biggest mistakes at DLR. They want to try DLR. They are curious about DLR. So they plan a trip to DLR expecting (subconsiously) DLR to be a carbon copy of WDW - maybe just a little smaller. So they start out with the idea that DLR is WDW just on the west coast. They would not admit that they think this way, but in their heart of hearts they often do.
So I have to ask such people, why would you want to go to a carbon copy of WDW when you could just go to WDW itself? And they say "I want to try something different". So they start planning and, guess what? It is different. And they get perturbed and confused. No ADR's six months in advance? No park schedules six months in advance? Less Disney hotels? In the middle of a city so not the same resort feel? Parks are physically smaller? And why is dining so different?
So, let's step back.
DLR is different. Not inherently worse - or better - just different. They cater to a different demographic. They have a different history. They have different weather. They are located in a smaller area in the middle of a large city. This impacts multiple things.
So let's talk about them. Why does DLR not have online dining reservations? They might some day I suppose, but understand that dining is not a big deal to most DLR visitors. They do not care about dining reservations. And do not make them. Even at the best DLR restaurants you can make reservations a week ahead of time - usually - and often can do walk in and get seated.
Why?
Because DLR visitors
think differently. While 85% of WDW visitors are on vacation and from far away, only 30% of DLR visitors fit this category. Yep, 70% of DLR visitors are from among the local 20 million SoCal residents and they are there on day trips. Most DLR visitors you see in the parks
are not on vacation.
On a day trip they do not care about dining.
They care about rides. And shows to some degree. But dining? DLR vets don't need no stinkin' dining!
Now understand I am generalizing and not everyone fits the above description. But DLR vets place a much, much, MUCH lower priority on dining than WDW vets. Since there are so many day trippers, many or most DLR visitors do not even know they will be going to DLR until a week or maybe a month before. They are making last minute decisions to visit.
So DLR offers dining reservations 2 months in advance and hardly anyone actually makes the dining reservations. Hence little or no need for online reservations. No one cares. That is why.
So are the DLR restaurants any good? Well, if by good you mean Epcot World Showcase good, sort of maybe. There are many good restaurants at DLR but IMO they are less creative and have less good quality than WDW. But there are some good ones and you should research that.
1) Dining - do we plan something sit-down for every night? We do in WDW. How bout character meals? Must dos? Ones I really need to call right at 60d to get?
Plan? Yes. Do? No. What do I mean?
DLR lends itself to a much more dynamic visit. The biggest reason is that the two parks are right next to each and in essence just one big park. There are
tons of rides at DLR. The two parks together have almost as many rides as WDW's four parks put together. Really. There are many superb shows at both parks. Plus seats for dining are not that hard to get and so you can make last minute dining decisions for location as well as time. Hey! Let's eat late this evening so we can catch the 6PM Aladdin show since we missed the show yesterday! You can do this and it works fine.
At WDW I make tons of ADR's. You have to if you want a certain restaurant at a convienent time. At DLR I do make reservations but I am much more flexible about whether I keep the reservations. And half the time I do not.
The last thing I would want at DLR is to let my dining reservations made two months before drive my decisions all day. Hey! I know we are having a great time watching a street show right now at DL, but we must leave now to make our ADR in DCA! Nope, no need for that. Just decide at the last minute.
Yes, I know it flies in the face of WDW vets inner need to plan everything 6 months in advance, but it actually is quite cool. You can actually
relax. And
not be a slave to your ADRs.
The only reservations you might want to secure early are the character meals. But I would recommend not to do too many. Maybe only one.
For more info on this see:
"From DLR to WDW and Back Again: My Challenge With WDW Dining Philosophy at DLR" -
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2449979
2) Park hours - we get a one-day deal to go in early for Toontown and another day to do Magic Mornings. I thought if we stayed on property (staying at GC) we got to go in early every day? But the CM I spoke with wasn't sure about that, said it was dependent on the deal we had with the resort. I booked it as a vacation package so I'm confused on that.
Magic Mornings are completely different than EMH. If you stay at the GCH you can do MM every day it is offered which is four days a week. Toontown Morning Madness is much less valuable than MM and you can do that if you book a package.
See "Magic Morning (Early Entry) Super Thread" by DLR29
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1675403
World of Color. Fantasmic. Aladdin. Make sure to see each one.
Fireworks change throught the year (DL has four fireworks shows) and the best one is Remember Dreams Come True. They are all good in their own way but just MK Wishes good. RDCT is in a league of its own and better than any fireworks show you have ever seen. If it is showing when you are there then plan to see it. Otherwise it depends on how much you like fireworks shows.
4) Room views to request? We're staying at GC, just a standard room so maybe it's not an option.
Some people like DTD view where you can see into DL. I really liked the theme park view into DCA we had last July. See my trip report here:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2526004
Have an awesome visit! DLR Rocks!
