lillygator
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- Dec 27, 2003
Ok - my mom had a birthday party for my sister at a restaurant...it was 10 or less people. When it came time to "get the check", we were all on seperate checks....now to me this was tacky....it wasn't a "hey, let's go to dinner" kind of thing, but a party. (For the record...I fully expected to pay and always do no matter who/what we are with because I want to be able to order what I want, not worry if my girls wasted food, etc.) I think my sister's friends were a bit taken by surprise, even my Grandmother as well.
I guess I just think that if you are inviting someone to a party...you foot the bill don't you? We had DD's party at a restaurant and paid for everyone, as we've paid for all party costs whenever we've had a party. Or is it normal to be expected to pay? I mean this is different than just meeting up for dinner...it's billed as a "party".
Is this the norm? What do you guys do?
I guess I just think that if you are inviting someone to a party...you foot the bill don't you? We had DD's party at a restaurant and paid for everyone, as we've paid for all party costs whenever we've had a party. Or is it normal to be expected to pay? I mean this is different than just meeting up for dinner...it's billed as a "party".
Is this the norm? What do you guys do?