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So back story.
We have a trip planned next month. Arrive Friday leave Wed. Well that wed is also my birthday. We were going to leave after we got up and packed (I only live 3 hours away) The tuesday night we will be at NSSHP with my two young kids (2 &4) For a while I kept asking DH lets do something since that wed is my birthday...kept saying no we are going home...ok so my mind finally gave up and said we are going home. About 2 weeks ago my husband came to me and said Well his mom and he had been trying to plan a surprise for my birthday (she and my parents are also attending since we are celebrating the kids bday) So he offered me go into the parks, restaurant......Part of me is still stuck on this idea of going home.
Well mom also needs a break.
Because I am having such a hard time trying to figure out what I want to do for my birthday he has offered me to go ahead and give me a mom's weekend away in nov/dec. Granted i know not the perfect time but i find there is so much more to keep me busy while I am alone.
So what would you do...try and come up with something for the birthday or take the mom's weekend away trip?
So back story.
We have a trip planned next month. Arrive Friday leave Wed. Well that wed is also my birthday. We were going to leave after we got up and packed (I only live 3 hours away) The tuesday night we will be at NSSHP with my two young kids (2 &4) For a while I kept asking DH lets do something since that wed is my birthday...kept saying no we are going home...ok so my mind finally gave up and said we are going home. About 2 weeks ago my husband came to me and said Well his mom and he had been trying to plan a surprise for my birthday (she and my parents are also attending since we are celebrating the kids bday) So he offered me go into the parks, restaurant......Part of me is still stuck on this idea of going home.
Well mom also needs a break.
Because I am having such a hard time trying to figure out what I want to do for my birthday he has offered me to go ahead and give me a mom's weekend away in nov/dec. Granted i know not the perfect time but i find there is so much more to keep me busy while I am alone.
So what would you do...try and come up with something for the birthday or take the mom's weekend away trip?