I do want to let you all know how this turned out and I apologize for the delay in doing so....the next day I called back & pressed option 3 as was suggested. The VERY nice lady promptly gave me my number and transferred me to member services for my online activation code. The gentleman I got was BEYOND nice, and even talked a little more than I normally would have liked...lol!! But he was very helpful, and as of this minute, I have 3 vacations already booked!
I still plan on sharing the info from my original post as I still find it unacceptable to be treated differently because I purchased the contract from someone who no longer needed/wanted it. But all in all, I am feeling much better, and LOVING being able to do everything online. Now, hurry up May so I can enjoy my very first stay as a DVC member