We did 12 table service meals across our 12 night trip with a toddler and a 7 yo. The highlights for the little one were:
Garden Grill- definitely the best character interaction. He had a blast interacting with the characters who came around more than once and loved the changing scenery from the restaurant turning. The food was good and he got a huge kick out of the goldfish they out on the Mac and cheese.
Bon Voyage Breakfast- he was given his choice of kids meal and drink for free, Rapunzel and Flynn really got into their roles, and they had a cute parade through the restaurant which made both kids feel like a big deal.
CRT- my son was also given a free kids meal of his choice, complete with drink, app, entree, and dessert. The kids of course loved the little toys they were given (wand, sword, and wishing star), the service and food were both incredible, and both kids thought the castle was just so magical.
SciFi- My toddler really enjoyed having the movie clips to watch and wasn't scared at all. He also thought it was really neat to sit in a car while he ate without having to be in his car seat!
Raglan Road- We were seated in a side room so couldn't see the dancers. Next time I will request a table near the stage. It was still fun though as they brought a couple dancers over to our room and invited all the kids over to a small area to learn a quick dance and get a cute certificate. The kids both thought that was neat.
Hoop Dee Doo- This was a blast! My toddler ate his weight in food and really got into the show. Lots of kids stood next to their chairs and danced when the actors did their songs, which helped them to feel involved and dispense a little energy. They brought washboards to the kids to bang on at the end. Super fun experience and we will definitely return!
Ohana dinner- My son enjoyed watching the meats get cooked and ate his weight in noodles. They didn't do any of the kids activities when we were there, but he was too busy eating everything in sight to be bored.
We enjoyed the characters at Crystal Palace and Tusker House, but thought the food wasn't the greatest at either. Timing going to the buffets was a bit of a pain too. There are so many places to see Mickey and the gang that we have no desire to return to TH. We'd consider returning to CP for the characters, but it's not a must do for us. Both restaurants we're also pretty loud and chaotic (TH especially). My son slept through most of our meal at TRex, but we didn't really find it to be any louder than anywhere else (and surprisingly, quieter than the buffets we went to).