Thank you all for the comments! We have decided to do Cape May for breakfast, and probably also the Garden Grill, although LTT is also still on our mind. It is difficult to make decisions...
I totally forgot about LLT the food is great there. But remember you can go to the Camp fire sing along and movie at Fort Wilderness for free as long as you are a WDW resort guest.
Cape May breakfast is excellent and the few times we ate there was late in the morning, and each time chip and dale hung around us for a long time. We had a great time with them.
the camp fire sing a long sounds good too, but I'm not sure if we can do that, since I know we already will have too little time to see everything. Well, a good reason to go back again after our visit in May.
My vote is fro Cape May. We took the kids there a few years ago & they loved it - interaction with all the characters was great & so was the food. Its a must do on our vacations now.