Hmm. Well, obviously everyone's tastes differ. But for ME:
1.) Coronado Springs - I just love the feel, and the restaurant has THE best servers, period. The pool is nice but a looooong ways from the main area. There definitely are some business types here, so it's not AS child-friendly I thought. I love the lobby and the rooms are nice too. It was a very different feel than when I booked it online for the first time. I was expecting to hate it, and now it's my fav.
2.) Caribbean Beach - it's very spread out, that's the only downside. Oh, and the transportation is kind of sketchy. The food court is OK, the restaurant is wonderful, and we liked the pirate pool and playground since we have younger kids. It's pretty quiet, overall. DH and I went there for our honeymoon sans kids and we still enjoyed it.
3.) PORFQ - The food court leaves something to be desired, and some of the decor is so-so. But the actual little streets you walk in between the buildings were just so pretty. And it's pretty compact.
4.) POR - We didn't stay here, just walked through. I wasn't crazy about the theming, but it was still well done. But it was LOUD - there was always construction whenever we went. We haven't tried the restaurant, either. I'm thinking one day we'll stay there and get a better opinion than just walking through, but there are a few other resorts we'd like to check off the list first.