Honestly, I don't think you can go wrong anywhere. I have stayed at all star sports and movies and it wasn't loud like I thought it would be.
Even during a big dance competition in late Jan with a lot of girls, we found that it wasn't bad at all.
We have also stayed at POFQ several times and like it there as well. If our budget allows for it we would stay there. POR was OK too. We swam at the quiet pool because it was quiet a distance to the main pool.
We have stayed at Poly, AKL and Beach Club as well and liked them a lot. If you aren't on a budget, any of the deluxe resorts would be fine. Beach Club is our all time favorite. Although, if we stayed there, we could only afford to go every 10 years or so.