Not that there are not some truely bad CM's out there, but I think that for the most part, the guests cause the problems more then the CM's and the CM's react to that because they are human. I think that if you go in expecting upgrades, exceptional service above and beyond the even above and beyond they offer, demand things, etc. you are going to run into a "bad" CM. If you are polite and accomodating to the fact that Disney is a busy place and not everyone is going to get everything they want, you will be fine.QUOTE]
I agree with this. I was trying to remember when we've ever had a rude CM, and I couldn't remember one. We've had mishaps, but more often than not the CMs were extremely pleasant about things whether they were going well or not. I was remembering once when we stayed at GF and when the bellman showed up (when we were checking out) I asked him, "Are things busy today?" (we'd had GWBush at the hotel earlier in the week and the resort had been crazy) and he replied kind of rudely, "No." and I replied, "That's nice for you then," nicely back to him. I'm not so self centered to think that someone who isn't in a talkative mood or in an unhappy one should be complained about. What if something terrible has just happened to him? Why hold onto it like I should ALWAYS be treated like a princess or the CM should be written up? Just my perspective, I guess. But I don't let unpleasant people in everyday life (like on freeways, for example) bother me, either. I just don't worry about it and don't internalize it as it has nothing directly to do with me unless I make it so by holding onto it. I like to think positively!!!