QueenOfCelts
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- Dec 31, 2002
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ducklite said:You maybe misunderstood. I have asthma. Medically documented. I take two medications daily for it, and use a rescue inhaler. Or is that not enough for you? Smoke can trigger an asthmatic reaction in me. Perfume can trigger an allergic reaction in me. Asthma and allergies are two very different things. I could DIE from an asthmatic attack. In my case some (NOT ALL) fragrances can cause my sinuses to fill. This is not deadly to me. Big difference.
I agree. If someone is wearing too much perfume I might say something loudly like "Man it stinks out here, someone's been bathing in perfume." But because they are unpleasant to be near doesn't mean they are affecting my health. Yes, it would be tacky of me to say so, but it's equally tacky for someone to wear that much fragrance--YUCK!
Then why not book a smoking room? Then you wouldn't have the problem. Smoking in a non-smoking area is just rude IMHO, particularly if someone tells you they have a medical condition that you are affecting in an adverse way. BTW--I wouldn't ask you to leave, just to not smoke on your balcony while I was on mine. Sorry, but my right to health trumps your right to smoke. Carry on with the cocktail if you'd like!
Anne
1. I did misunderstand. It must be very difficult for you.
2. I see you are passive aggressive judging by the way you handle someone with too much perfume on. LOL



3. I don't get a smoking room for two reasons. My son shouldn't be around smoke and I don't want to. It's really that simple. Mama loves a cig with a cocktail.
One more thing. I smoke on my balcony when I want to and unfortunately my attitude is just like yours....go inside until I am done.
