Sounds like a trip! We did a family of 9 trip last Sept for my parents 45th anniversary.
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I did the planning for everyone. I tried tp plan something for everyone plus enough separate family time so we all had some down time (I know my family

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Day 1 Dinner at Cape May followed by an Illuminations cruise. The family arrived via ME about 4:30 and we had 5:15 dinner ressies. We were also staying at the BCV so it was easy and non stressful for everyone
The cruise was great and we all got to see Illuminations and not use a park ticket.
Day 2 was MK day. We had lunch ressies at 11:30 and we all met there. Some of us were there at opening and some of us a little later, all about touring styles. Had a great lunch, wore matching shirts and got a great family picture
(get the photopass!!! Have everyone take tons of pics and at the end load them all together, add backgrounds, crop, cut and get the dvc. you will own the pics and they will be well worth the $99 charge)
another day i sent my parents with my DB, DSIL and niece to lunch with jo jo and friends. A special lunch with the grandparents and they all had a blast. Next day special lunch with other niece and grandparents in Norway.
A little bit of this, a little bit of that and we hooked up here and there. Our last full day was lunch at Coral Reef (we liked lunch better. Mom needs to take an afternoon rest and a nice TS meal worked well for us). I had the custome menus done for my parents. I stole pictures form their wedding and 25th anniversary and 40th anniversary at disney. mom was thrilled
so that is how we planned our trip. We did not tour together every day all day, too many different ages and wants. We had a great time and less than 4 years til their 50th
