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I was looking for something entirely different and found this story about one child with ASD and the positive effect of MK on him.
Thought this would be a great thing to share (no guarantees this will happen if you take a child with ASD to WDW, but it certainly won't hurt).

In case the story disappears from the newspaper website, here's the text (but you still want to follow the link to see the picture).

A couple say visiting Disney World helps unlock their autistic son's closed world
From the Orlando Sentinal, written by Linda Shrieves

When Sara Miles tells people that she moved from Seattle to Orlando so her son could be close to Disney World, she knows what they're thinking.

That she's crazy.

But most people don't understand what it's like to have an autistic child -- to watch a talking toddler lose his speech and melt into a quiet world that no one else can enter. Most people don't know what it's like to see the doors to all your dreams slam shut.

So when Sara and her ex-husband brought their autistic son, Ben, to Disney World for the first time back in 2002, they were astounded. The boy who threw temper tantrums at the grocery store suddenly seemed quiet, patient and observant. The boy who rarely talked began naming the rides they had been on.

It was the first time that Ben had spoken words that his parents, teachers and speech therapists hadn't coaxed out of him.

"As soon as he set foot in the Magic Kingdom it was like someone turning on a light switch," says Ben's father, Ron Miles. "I know it sounds crazy to move across the country for this, but if it's the key that unlocks his potential, it's worth it."

For five years, Ben, now 14, has been a fixture at the Magic Kingdom. On weekends and school holidays, he can often be found zipping through the crowds at Fantasyland to get to his favorite place: Snow White's Scary Adventures.

Of all the rides at the Magic Kingdom, the Snow White ride captivates Ben the most. He has ridden it 2,084 times -- so many times that the cast members once took photos inside the ride and gave Ben a photo album when the ride temporarily shut down for renovations.

And when Disney cast members learned that Ben was approaching his 2,000th ride last month, they arranged for him to meet Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, an event that included a kiss from Snow White.

Ben's parents aren't entirely sure why Ben loves the Snow White ride so much.

That's one of the many puzzling pieces of autism. Parents don't know why their child becomes attached to a particular toy or activity.

Yet, as the number of children diagnosed with autism grows, researchers are focusing more attention on this complex developmental disability. According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, one out of every 160 children has autism and more than 25,000 U.S. children will be diagnosed with autism this year.

While autistic children and their abilities vary widely, there are some common traits. For instance, autistic children often develop a fixation on one topic or one interest -- and researchers have discovered autistic kids frequently obsess about animated characters. "Thomas the Tank Engine is a big show for kids on the autism spectrum," says Dr. Richmond Mancil, an associate education professor and autism specialist at the University of Central Florida. "These kids don't really have an interest in trains. They don't care about trains, but if it's Thomas, they're interested."

While other autistic kids became focused on things such as Legos and World War II tanks, Ben zeroed in on Disney movies.

Fantasia. Snow White. Beauty and the Beast.

By age 4, he knew how to operate the rewind and forward button on the VCR. He wore out videotapes, listening to sections of movies over and over, especially the section of Snow White in which the evil queen turns into a hag.

By the time Ben was 8, Sara and Ron -- by then divorced, but sharing custody -- decided to take Ben to Disney World. Privately, Sara worried that the vacation might end like most trips to the grocery store: with Ben screaming and crying and Sara uncertain what had set him off.

But when they walked into the Magic Kingdom, Ben's face spread into a huge grin. Then he ran up Main Street, through a sea of tourists, and headed straight for Cinderella Castle.

What astounded Ron and Sara, however, was Ben's speech.

To their surprise, Ben, who rarely spoke, began naming the rides. "The Haunted Mansion," "Snow White," "Pooh."

His behavior was strikingly different, too. He waited patiently in long lines. He was calm and happy. "We had never seen him like that out in public -- not ever," says Sara.

After the trip, Sara and Ron Miles decided that if Ben, their only child, needed to be near Disney World, they would pack up and move. As a teacher, Sara could relocate. Ron's a software developer, so his employer agreed to let him try working remotely from Florida.

So the next year, in the summer of 2003, Sara and Ron, two divorced but devoted parents, moved across the country, bought annual passes and began to use the Magic Kingdom as "one giant therapy session."

Sara and Ron Miles have tried to use Ben's fascination with Disney and Snow White to motivate him to talk more.

They may be onto something, says one researcher. "Part of the work that we're doing is teaching fathers to follow a child's lead in play sessions to elicit interaction," says Dr. Jennifer Elder, an autism specialist at the University of Florida. "It's a connection made with a child's interests. So I think that their strategy and what they've found with their son sounds very plausible."

While some autism experts think parents should push their children to move beyond their repetitive behaviors and try new things, Ben's parents say they are doing just that.

"Obviously Disney is not some miracle cure," says Ron, 40. "But it's an opportunity to work on so many skills."

At Disney, they say, Ben -- who falls in the middle of the autism spectrum -- has learned to deal with crowds, which once made him so leery that he didn't like going to the mall. He has learned to wait in lines patiently and he is learning how to handle money, often paying for food and snacks himself.

And when they visit the theme park each week, he's gradually trying new rides. "He's slowly branching out, getting more adventurous," Ron said.

At home, Ben is branching out as well. Instead of watching videos all the time, he now goes swimming or skates around his dad's Winter Garden neighborhood. At Princeton House Charter School, an Orlando school for autistic children, Ben and his classmates are learning educational skills and life skills, such as how to make a bed.

Ben is still quiet among strangers, though occasionally he launches into chatterbox mode. His speech, though progressing, is still hard for outsiders to comprehend. At his mom's apartment in Maitland, Ben chirps and squeaks and giggles, his high-pitched laughter ringing out across a room. From his mouth comes a rich cacophony of sounds that include words and phrases from his favorite movies.

"Ah-ah-ah-ah, EEE!" he squeals, much like the monkeys from Jungle Book. A few minutes later, he wanders into the living room. "Help," he says, holding his mother's hand. He wants help with the VCR.

Before long, he rushes back into the room, pointing to his Disney annual pass. "Take a tram," he tells his mother.

Sara smiles.

That's "Ben-speak" for going to the Magic Kingdom.

But the fact that Ben is speaking means so much more. It means that Ben is learning to communicate.

Ben is also learning the power of words. At the Magic Kingdom, Ben stops in shop after shop, looking for candy. His dad repeatedly tells him no, and Ben moves on. But after a few hours, Ben takes decisive action. He looks his father squarely in the eye. "Daddy, I want candy," he says clearly.

That's the sound of music to Ben's parents.

His dad smiles and finally relents. He buys a bag of candy.
 
I have heard this story on this and another board and read posts at both sites because it so amazes me how he has improved bit by tiny bit. See it can happen. Hugs and thanks for reposting that as it is a great story that needs to be retold over and over again.
 
MY DS, now age 16 has classic Autism. He did not speak until he was age 4, and then it was only what we called "Disneyease". He would take those magnetic letters at age 2 and arrange them on the floor to spell out such things as "Cinderella, A Walt Disney Presentation". :wizard: We first took him to WDW when he was 8 and his verbal abilities progressed. He memorized the park maps, times guides, bus routes, etc. He could be a substitute now for the announcer for every parade and fireworks show, as he practices all the time what the announers say. His favorite fireworks show is "Illuminations, Reflections of Earth".

Aanyway, if Walt Disney knew how he would help children with his dream of a mouse, I think he would be astounded. :cool2:
 

We can soooo relate! We just relocated to Celebration to be near the parks for my son with autism. We are from NY and would go to the parks at least every 8 weeks for my son to get his fix. The results were very similiar to "Ben's." Upon arriving here, we had an interview for my son to enter The Princeton House Charter School. During the interview, the principal had commented that my son reminded her very much of another student, Ben. He currently is enrolled there and we hope to someday meet Ben. Our experiences seem eeringly similiar.....
 
I've read this story before and I love it! My DS 11 has PDD-NOS and borderline intellectual functioning. He is a terrific kid who absolutely LOVES Mickey and the Disney parks! We try to get to DL or WDW at least once a year as DS always seems to have a spurt in development! On various trips throughout the years, he's learned his colors, letters, shapes, and even finally potty trained at close to 8 years old while at WDW! When he is having a meltdown, often a park map will calm him down, or better yet, watching dvds of our previous trips. He is especially fascinated with the monorails and draws them frequently. His room is all Mickey Mouse. The principal at his first elementary school called it 'the Disney effect' how much more focused DS was when he returned from a trip to his happy place, jokingly said it's a shame we can't include it in the IEP that he needs at least yearly trips to Disney!
 
Amazing! My DS5 has PDD-NOS and he's been to Disney twice with his 3rd trip coming up in October. He is so excited and talks about it non-stop since I told him that we are going. He is counting "How many sleeps until Mickey" and wants to watch YouTube's of the rides.

One thing that amazed me on our last trip in Sept 2006 was how his social language exploded! We bought him an autograph book and he would proudly say "May I have your autograph please?" It was precious.

I agree that viewing a map will most always calm him down. He studies the airport diagrams in the in flight magazines usually during the entire flight.

I'm so proud of my little man :)
 
Thanks for posting this article! We've been to disney 6 times and plan on returning next year. So many people don't understand why we keep going back. Our DS17 is autistic and is so happy when we are in Disney. He remembers where all the rides are and leads the way to where he wants to go. He's loved disney videos since he was a toddler and watches a disney dvd in bed every night when going to sleep. When we go to the mall he always stops at the disney store. And he also watches Youtube for the disney rides and sing alongs. If we could afford it we would take him to disney at least twice a year. Linda :)
 
Cool to hear so many people reporting similar reactions from their kids :goodvibes
 
Thanks for posting :)

My 8 yo, PDD-NOS, can't wait; he's been a few times, but is really excited for our trip next week.

Everyday now he starts telling me "we're almost there, we're almost there" (with a big grin on his face) :)
 
We have been going every year for three years now. I wasn't sure about going the first year - We have a daughter with autism, and I didn't know how she would handle all of the people & sounds. My biggest concern was her EXTREEM FEAR of Winnie the Pooh! At that time, her only fears were Pooh & Elmo - nothing else. When we got to disney world, she was Very cautious about running into this scarry bear, but by the end of our trip, she even agreed to take a picture with Pooh. OK, she had her pouty face on (it was a very cute picture), and by the end of that trip, her fear had deminished to a "maybe he's not so bad". Last year, she couldn't wait to see Pooh, and smiled and hugged him like it was her best friend. We are going again in a few weeks, and I know she will be wanting to see her Pooh friend as soon as we get there.
Elmo is still a problem.
 
I can so relate!!! (As a mom of 2 children with autism.)
May daughter's first real words at age 5 were, "Have fun? Go bus see da castle?" I thought I would fall off my bus seat. It is amazing that her favorite ride is also the Snow White ride. We went on the ride a record 15 times in one evening once because she used her words to request another ride & the wait was less than 5 minutes. She is now 14. We have a routine that we follow because she needs a schedule.
My son appears most "normal" in Disney World. Every time we go we seem to be able to climb more hurdles when we get back home. Only big boys that go potty in the bathroom can go on Buzz Lightyear, works wonders!!! Now it's more like if you wet the bed we don't go on Test Track.
The best part is the accomidations that Disney offers for us with the GAC. Six Flags is nice, but every week the system changes. Change isn't good for my kids. Disney has never smashed my son's wheelchair in a gate lock or shoved the chair out of the way & refused to go get it for us. They have never tried to send my daughter alone in a different direction than me because only one person can follow the wheelchair.
The only thing I would like is a more affordable place to stay that had a kitchen & is on site. I love the cabins but, I can find other places for half that amount off site.
 
I have three on the spectrum, two sons with AS and one w/HFA and we go to WDW once a year because it is so heart tuggingly special for the twins (the older one at 20 has no desire to go). Perry, HFA, is particularly into Mickey's Philharmagic which we do over and over. Tristan was treated like royalty by the cms especially by Jack Sparrow and Crush who saw the brilliant boy he is. I am in college, entering nursing school next year, and moving to the Orlando area might be a real possibility for me and Perry and the other kids go to college and start their own lives. I think it would make him very happy to live near his friend Mickey.
 
My 7 year old is PDD-NOS and we've been 3x. He shows some progression everytime we go. He is a very picky eater and usually tries a new food which is great. He loves the Haunted Mansion and can tell you pretty much everything you'd want to know about it. For the first time this past May, he stayed to watch Illuminations. They year before he was running out of the park as soon as the announcements were made! I just stood there crying as I watched him watch it. It was magical.
 
Yes, Yes, Yes, us too! DD has ASD (high functioning) and DS has a brain anomaly w/ autistic features. They improve every trip in a measurable and dramatic way. This year for the first time they watched - and loved- hallowishes and illuminations! Yes, they had ear protectors, yes, they flapped; but they were mesmorized, and so excited; their smiles were amazing! Also, DS's social development raced ahead d/t pin trading; I had no idea it would make such a difference, but by the end of the trip he was walking up to every CM and asking "Can I see your lanyard?" I wanted to cry every time- this kid doesn't talk to people he doesn't know well, ykwim? And if he does, b/c of phonological impariment they don't know what he's saying, but these CM's did! He had interactions w/ approx 100 CM's over the week; I'm just overwhelmed by how well he did. I so wish we could move to Orlando, but DH has no hope right now of working there, so I'll just start saving for next year!
 
Thank you for posting this. I am sending this to my BIL whose 4 year old DS is autistic, and keep saying that they don't know if they'll ever go to Disney.
 
I was just in our Disney Store last week and mentioned to the sales lady about my 2 boys on the autism spectrum and what a great job Disney does for special needs kids. She got tears in her eyes almost immediately.

She told me a story of when she worked at DL and was backstage and saw Cinderella sobbing. She and another CM went to check on her. It seemed that a little girl (around 6 or 7 I think she said) had come up to her, introduced herself, told her that she was her favorite character and where she lived. Her handler saw that the little girls mom was near hysterics and asked her what was wrong. The mom told the handler that those where her first real words and that she was autistic.

Ah, the magic of Disney! :wizard:
 
What a great story!

Our son has PDD-NOS and is universally delayed. We go to DW or DL every year. On our first trip to DL he took his first step. He was 19mo old. He climbed stairs for the first time at DW. He was 3 years 4 months old. It was the steps at Belle's little show next to the castle.

We have found that if we go when the park is overly crowded we see huge strides. However, last year we went in June and learned quickly what a huge mistake we made. It all proved to be very overwhelming. If we had not had the GAC we may have very well left the parks and not returned. He even had difficulties in the hotel. We had to switch rooms and then sent him down a path that was just not good.

None the less we are headed back in just a few days and I cannot wait to go and see what excitement this trip will bring!
 
I totally believe this. My DD (6) has ADD and ASD (highly functioning). Well when we are at Disneyworld she blossoms. She communicates (and has even danced) with the characters. She becomes very verbal on what she wants and asking the "w" questions.. Its really a great thing to see.
 
Add me to the list of those that can relate!

Can't help thinking that Walt Disney himself must looking down with a smile!
 





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