Asking for Thoughts and Prayers

[jcb]

Yesterday I lost my mother. She led a wonderful, full life. She fiercely loved my father, her three sons, and touched many with her gifted performances on the piano and organ. She instilled in me a love for music, travel, the outdoors and a belief that no matter what the obstacles, I could accomplish anything.

Just before Thanksgiving, Mom grew jaundiced. An endoscopy revealed a tumor in her pancreas which was later confirmed to be cancerous. In a strange way the diagnosis was a gift, as it let us know our time with Mom was short. We were able to make the most of that limited time.

Even so, I dreaded Mom having to endure a drawn out, painful end. I could see Mom declining in my last several visits but she continued to laugh, tease my father (a lifelong habit), and was as alert as can be when you have dementia. Thursday afternoon, for the first time, Mom complained that she was in pain. Friday morning, Mom became non-responsive with very weak vitals. She passed, peacefully, at home yesterday afternoon. My father and I were with her. Mom never wanted a "fuss" made about her. She lived, and died, the way she wanted and had hoped, with grace and poise.

The DIS has meant more to me than I could ever describe in words. Thanks for letting me share my thoughts about my Mom.

 

[mdvlprof]

So sorry about your mom. Thoughts and prayers go out for you and your family.

 

[safetymom]

I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. Mom's hold a special place in our hearts. I hope you are able to take some comfort from your memories. We are always here to listen if you want to "talk."

 

[kcb1dizbksfan]

My sincere condolences to you and your family. I lost my Mother in 2011 and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her. Mothers are extremely special people and the bereavement process is difficult and everyone handles this period differently.

 

[Kimberle]

I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Prayers said. I'm so sorry.

 

[k5jm]

We are so sorry to hear this, Jack. I can see her influence in many of your interests and passions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[ImTooExcitedToSleep]

So sorry, Jack.

 

[chirurgeon]

Jack, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

Kim

 

[Tinkershelly]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs for you and your family My mom's health has been a problem for the past couple of years so I have an idea of what you were going through.

 

[DisneyKevin]

I'm so sorry to hear this.

Hopefully, they are somewhere discussing and teasing us.

You and your family are in our hearts and thoughts.

 

[WebmasterJohn]

I am so sorry for your loss Jack.

Thank you for sharing these wonderful memories of your Mom with all of us.

Hugs to you and Cathy

 

[WebmasterCorey]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Jack. I'm glad you had the chance to make the most of your time with her.

We'll keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

 

[racefans44]

Very sorry for your loss.

 

[OKW Lover]

Jack, Sorry to hear about your Mom. Its always hard, even when you think you are prepared. At least it sounds like she did not suffer long and that you have many great memories of the good times. It may be hard to believe right now, but it won't be long that you'll have a smile on your face every time you think of her. Val & I are sending you, and your family

 

[Pooh2]

So sorry for your loss!

 

[Heather.Mohler]

Jack,
I am so sorry for your loss. It is obvious through your post that your mother did a wonderful job raising you. You are blessing her by showing the world what a good mother she is. You are in my prayers.

God bless,
Heather

 

[Sarabi's Cubs]

Jack - I am very sorry for your loss and pray that you are comforted by wonderful memories during this difficult time.

Laurie

 

[SamSam]

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you take comfort in what sounds like wonderful memories of her.

 

[apurplebrat]

So sorry for your loss Jack
We are sending hugs to you and Cathy