When facts hurt sometimes it is not the lecturer's fault.
@lanejudy took the time to share a piece of advice that maybe you should be considering. You are sincerely overthinking and overreacting something which is relatively pretty minor. I mean people have to embark on the ship and they cannot all embark at the same time.
Do your best to enjoy your time on the cruise.
If the later PAT is too much an inconvenience for you nobody on this forum will stop you showing at the earlier PAT you have. I'm pretty confident they will let you in. You would be surprised how many people make mistakes, honest or not, when planning a Disney vacation, and the majority of those are not taking the time to go to a board like this one to help raise their awareness about rules. Remember people here are mostly focused about “diving” into how things work for a
Disney cruise. This is for a reason we advised against using the earliest PAT and use the latest one: doing otherwise is rude and against the rules. You are probably not the only party in this situation, and you will benefit a personal gain over them if you chose to bend the rules and not follow them at your advantage.
But that's your call. You to decide. We're not the
Disney Cruise Line police.