The urgent care places around here are pretty much a joke, the paramedics and doctor's mostly have advised us to wait if at all possible or go straight to ER rather than the non-pediatric urgent care. I am loathe to visit an ER, especially with small kids, because the ER is a great place to catch something really nasty while being diagnosed with something relatively minor.
I have consistently gotten medical advice to get a higher level of care than was actually waranted. DD was 9 months old and running a fever that wouldn't go down but also wasn't extreme-101-103 for 2 days. The nurse line at my pediatrician's office said to take her to urgent care. As we pulled into urgent care her fever broke and she broke out in a horrible rash all over: roseola and there was no medical treatment needed, but we didn't know that!
Then a year later, she was vomitting and couldn't keep anything down, not even water. Her doctor's office said if that continued more than 24 hours we needed to go to the ER. So that Sunday we were in the ER, where they diagnosed her with a virus and checked to see if she was dehydrated and sent her home.
When my son was 5 months old, my husband tripped over my daughter and dropped the baby on the sidewalk. I took him to the local urgent care more just to confirm he was OK because I have no medical training, but he seemed fine. They freaked out and told me to instantly take him to the pediatric ER for an MRI, told me if I really loved him I would go downtown instead of the local hospital. When I took him to the pediatric ER downtown, the doctor said he was fine and that if the impact zone is smooth and the patient is conscious, there is no call for an MRI from a head trauma.
Then when he was 15 months old I took him in to the regular doctor for what I assumed was a sinus infection and his blood sat measured low and didn't respond to breathing treatment and he ended up being taken by ambulance to the pediatric ER...where the doctor assured me the measurement they took at the dr's office could not have been accurate, based on my son's cheerful demeanor. Which had been my suspicion all along, but how do you argue with health care professionals saying your child's life is in danger if you don't put him in an ambulance?
And then the day before my son turned 2, he was really sick. He was extremely lethargic and slept 20 hours in 24. He wouldn't respond to us, just laid there. The nurse line suggested we go to urgent care in case it was meningitis, we went to pediatric urgent care because regular urgent care place is a joke. Urgent care said no way is this meningitis, did some tests and gave him fluids and decided he was really sick so he needed to once again ride an ambulance to the pediatric ER. They gave him more fluids and and observed him and did an X-ray and gave him an enema and gave him Gatorade and sent us home at 5 in the morning with a diagnosis of "probably a virus, he's fine." Oh, and the ER doctor and nurse insisted a scratch on his lip was impetigo, which my regular doctor confirmed the next morning it was not.
I don't think any of those 5 instances was a true medical emergency and wish we had stayed home for all of them. But once a medical professional has advised me to escalate to urgent care or ER, I keep thinking that I would never forgive myself if I ignored that advice and I was wrong! So maybe I am ER-happy, but not by my preference!