Right now, my direct supervisor is a female, and she is on the top ten of idiot bosses. She has no people skills. I am the office manager and administrative support for 60 + people in AZ and 30+ people in NJ, she thinks I am her personal gofer. THere is NO ONE on our office that likes her, she is condesending toward everyone, she has no idea of how to do the work she is responsible for, she is great at spinning her way out of the messes she makes. But I look at it this way, I only have to report to her for now. In my company, things change a lot, and in a few days we are going into a new directors organization, our work responsibilitites will change greatly, so I doubt that I will report to her much longer.
I have had bad male bosses and good, and bad female bosses and good. It is the person that matters, not the gender. Although I have found that if the person is a parent, they generally make a better boss than a never married or married with no kids.