The Disney Crocs ARE unisex; thats why there are men's and women's sizes on the bottom. They are simply the Beach style, but with Mickey heads for the holes on top instead of circles. Aside from that, no difference. I'm not sure what you mean by "the women's ones", unless you are talking about the pink and pearl and maybe red colored Crocs. Disney Crocs are also available in black, so I'm guessing your DH would probably be OK with those.