Are BFF's Ex's Off Limits?

[disneydance]

Ok so I want your opinon on this.
My now Ex best friend dated the boy I had dated and had broke up with.
I was thinking about it and it hit me
It annoyed the fact out of me that she was dating my ex.
Now that were not friends I dont really care anymore.
But do you think that bff ex's are off limit
Also what do you think about friends.

 

[Sparx]

in my opinion, whats over is over.
i'd warn my friends though. all my exes suck.

 

[Cassidy]

eh, who cares?
boys are boys, and they are all stupid and immature.
like this kid, reid, i 'dated' about two years ago for like a year. he is like, one of my best friends, and he is dating another one of my best friends.
i actually got them together, lol.
if your over the boy, if you are, katie, then i dont really think it should be a problem.

if shes your 'ex' best friend, then SHE, a girl, a human, someone who isn't your friend, is dating your ex boyfriend.

so shes not your best friend.
anymore.

 

[disneydance]

eh, who cares?
boys are boys, and they are all stupid and immature.
like this kid, reid, i 'dated' about two years ago for like a year. he is like, one of my best friends, and he is dating another one of my best friends.
i actually got them together, lol.
if your over the boy, if you are, katie, then i dont really think it should be a problem.

if shes your 'ex' best friend, then SHE, a girl, a human, someone who isn't your friend, is dating your ex boyfriend.

so shes not your best friend.
anymore.

The thing is she began dating him when we were bff's
She decided we couldnt be bff's anymore a week ago
The reason why it highly disturbed me was the way he broke up with me
He did it very imaturely and really hurt my feelings badly

 

[Babyjustrun]

I think.. I'd just like to be told first.
I wouldn't want to just see it on my Facebook one day, and be like.. great...
Seriously though, it would bug me at first, otherwise nothing else.
I won't say they should at least wait a bit after, because my current boyfriend asked me out less than a week after her broke up with his ex.
and well, yeah, it'd be hypocritical of me to say that they should wait.

 

[Fatphil32]

It depends on the time you allow. At our age, there's quite a few people who date almost everyone in the school, so at that point they aren't. If it's one person who you thought they were really close to but it didn't happen, I'd stay away. Basically it depends on the level & time of it all.

 

[MushuGirl06]

If your best friend (now ex bff) dates your ex boyfriend she is obviously not your best friend. When my and my boyfriend of two years broke up i was hurt and she was there to comfort me and i sleptover her house that night and had a blast but anyways they are supposed to comfort and help you through hard times with you but i think if you allow it to happen and you are fine with them dating i think it should be allowed and that situation that happened to you just goes to show you that you cant trust everyone that is close to you because things change.

*sorry if thats confusing ha

 

[HouseMD1120]

In high school, there are so many pathetic relationships that only last for 3 days that I don't think it really matters. However, after high school, or at least after your junior year of high school, I think that your friend needs to at least talk to you about it before she starts dating him.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I personally think they are off limits, unless the BFF talks to her before she starts dating the ex.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

Well, if you were still friends with your friend, then yes ex's are off limits.
My best friend lied to me and flirted with my crush. He ended up asking me out, I was taken, so he asked my BFF out a couple minutes later.
That completely ended my friendship with the both of them, some monthes later.

If your ex BFF with them, then I guess it's not as bad..

 

[disneydance]

Well, if you were still friends with your friend, then yes ex's are off limits.
My best friend lied to me and flirted with my crush. He ended up asking me out, I was taken, so he asked my BFF out a couple minutes later.
That completely ended my friendship with the both of them, some monthes later.

If your ex BFF with them, then I guess it's not as bad..

This was going on well we were best friends
We stopped being friends just last week (After 7 years)
I never said anything because I didnt want her to get mad at me
But it annoyed me to death.

 

[3mtn-kate]

i think that as long as there are absolutely no feelings between them anymore that it's fine.

like i got really annoyed at my friend for dating my ex because i still had feelings for him, but then i went and dated a friend's ex but i knew that there was nothing between them anymore so i didn't think anything of it.

i think it depends on the friend and the situation.

 

[I'm a Divaaaaa]

I would never do it and it pisses me off when people do it to me. I don't want sloppy seconds from my friends and they should have more respect for me than to date someone I did. But I mean if I wasnt affected over the breakup as much I would hardly care.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

I go to a really tight-nit school. My friends and their exes are my good friends. I'd never date their exes, and they'd never date mine.

 

[StitchfansJr]

In high school, there are so many pathetic relationships that only last for 3 days that I don't think it really matters. However, after high school, or at least after your junior year of high school, I think that your friend needs to at least talk to you about it before she starts dating him.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

If it was a serious relationship that ended badly and they had bitter/adverse/or even leftover feelings, I'd feel bad.
I've seen way too many friendships ruined over stupid things like exes to do it.

 

[softball chick]

Personally I would try to stay away from any Ex's of my BFF.
But if you can't help yourself, at least warn them.
Talk to them about it and see what they think.
It will be better than them finding out later.

 

[Daisuke]

normally yes..cuz it would be really awkward and it also depends on how they broke up..but you should really ask them first if you really want get with their ex

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I would NEVER date a best friend's ex. It's wrong on so many levels I think. :l