Hi, Just a few suggestions:
First of all Hawaii is very tropical, but is is also very Americanized. Not very remote, though the most "remote" Island is probably Kauai. (Actually Molokai, but that is the extreme). Maui is very beautiful and full of beaches and rocky cliffs as well. Palm trees everywhere, but tourists everywhere as well. You'll be hard pressed to find a beach that will be totally yours.
You may want to check out Punta Cana in the Dominican Republic. Beautiful Beaches with the tallest most perfect palm trees I've seen anywhere. And Punta Cana is pretty remote. Yes there are quite a few resorts there, but each one is secluded and set back off of the beach so that you can feel like you are on your own little island. Please know, that Punta Cana is ONLY resorts. No real town to speak of. If you are looking for local activities, you must take a tour away from the resort area. (Which we did and it was such a cool experience!) Grand Cayman and Aruba can also offer beautiful beaches with many palms. But they are vastly different from Hawaii. No Lush green mountains here. They are both more Desert Islands, but to me that is where the most beautiful blue waters are.
You'll also have to make sure that you can legally get married in any of these places. (Of course Hawaii Yes, but the others you'll have to do some research).
If you are looking for that "remote tropical Island" thing, stay away from well known beaches like Trunk Bay in St. John. Yes, it is beautiful, but so do the hundreds of tourists that flock there every day. There are sooooo many beautiful secluded beaches on many different islands. Your best bet is to find a wedding service/coordinator that can point you in the direction of the beaches that you are looking for and let you know if they are available for you to use.
Congratulations on your engagement! Please let us know what you choose!
Mrsfuzzmo
