Overall, I have to say my husband and I prefer deluxe (we are staying at BWI in December) BUT on our last couple trips, we stayed at POR and AKL respectively. Overall, I enjoyed the POR more. Why?
It's tough to say. Some of it is easily attributed to the vacation itself...at POR we were there for 2 weeks honeymooning and AKL was a week long trip after a stressful time at work. We had a vet keep our dogs during the first trip and a friend keep them our second trip...result being phone calls from my friend every day worrying about something minor which was a huge vacation fun-killer.
But some of it had to do with the resort itself. Oddly enough, since AKL has the best food in our opinion, it made us lazy and we found ourselves never leaving the resort at night (or even our room....we ordered room service all the time). As a result we didn't get out and see the sights at different places, which really detracted from the overall experience. Also, AKL is so isolated, you don't feel as much a part of things as you do at other resorts.
Anyway, we enjoyed POR more...but we are anxious to get to BWI, which is truly our type of resort.