We just bought the Pilot last Friday. And we love, love, love it!

I did a ton of research before we even drove any cars, and the Pilot was the best on paper (low maintenance, bigger, safer, good gas mileage for an SUV, etc). I wanted it before we even drove it. And then we drove it and I was completely in love. It's incredibly roomy, with lots of places for things. And it drives like a car, not a truck, which was something we were looking for. The third row is really not big enough for adults, but we're looking at it more for the future kids. And the back! So roomy! The third row folds really flat, so you can't tell at all.
The only downside I've found is that there's no antenna, so I have no place for my Mickey toppers.
Oh, and we got leather with no additionally accessories. DH wanted the nav system, but we ended up buying a portable one for thousands less than it would have cost to have it already in the car.