outstandinfarmer--how horrible. Just when you think YOU (meaning me) has had a bad experience, there's always someone who's had a worse one. You must've been beside yourself. I give you credit for even trying to make the best of that situation.
As for the original request....I've been upgraded probably about 6 times out of 60 visits. I've never asked but it's been offered. The only time I ever asked to be upgraded (and said I would pay for an upgrade), there were no rooms available.
Last year we had a series of room issues, but nothing like outstandinfarmer's. We checked into the All Star Movies and had a GUARANTEED non smoking room for severe medical reasons (yes this was on our confirmation) and the A/S Movies did not save or hold a room for us. We were politely told that we were being PUT into a room at the A/S Sports--the end of the resort facing the woods (the worse room location I've ever had at any All Stars). No, I'm sorry, no free tickets--nothing, zippo. I even asked if I could pay the difference and be put into a perferred room and was told no. OK, so only 2 days--wasn't going to kill us.
Then we moved to the CR for 7 nights--Wing standard room. We got our room and it wreaked of smoke. No way could either my grandson nor myself stay in that room without getting ill. So we went back to the desk. OK, they gave us another room (still in S. Wing) and when we got to it--it was occupied. OOOOKKKK we went to the desk and told them this. By now I was beside myself, especially after our experience at the All Star 2 days earlier, and feeling like "they just didn't care if we were happy or not." SSSOOOO now with our third set of keys in hand, we are given another room at the S. Wing, and this one is OK. After inconveniencing us for 2 hours, running back and forth to find our rooms, then back to the front desk, we're not sure if we even got an apology. No upgrades here for us. We made the best of it and tried to not let it ruin our trip. But now, everytime I go to the front desk at any resort I get this knot in my stomach thinking they are going to have bad news for us.