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Oh I went thru this last year - somewhere there is a great thread of a bunch of us Dis'ers who were Freshman parents. We checked in periodically througout the year. We all survived as did our kids
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My DS's school is 8 miles from our house and I don't think it mattered 8 miles or 500 miles he still "left" the nest.
First - I was pretty crybabyish for about a week before and after but I was rather forlorn and depressed for about 2 months.
However - DS came home in May and within a couple of weeks I was counting down the days to when he would leave again.
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I love him dearly and missed him like crazy but that year away does something to both parents and child as it is intended.
Parents develop new routines and learn to like the peace and quiet, the grocery bill is greatly reduced and lo and behold the leftovers in the fridge are still there when you go to get them. Child learns to manage themselves, their time and their weird internal clocks. They make a ton of friends and play at all hours, coming back home is boring and what do you mean I need to take the trash out
Here is an ironic thing I noted - on move in day the parents will be boohooing and perhaps a little clingy while the kids can't wait to begin their new adventure. I made it out of his dorm room and to the parking lot and then a friend called to see how I was and I was standing there in front of his dorm and I lost it. 9 months later I arrive to pack him up, help him clean his dorm etc......he is all emotional and boohooey as are most of the kids. Lots of hugs, tears etc.... He spends the first month at home moping around, he misses his friends etc. last month a friend came to visit for a week, he was thrilled. On Monday he leaves for a week to Vegas to go visit and stay with several of his new friends. Then it is only 3 weeks before school starts and we will have all made it through the summer and we will be dropping him off at this new student apt. that has a 12 month lease which means he will not be home for Christmas or next summer and you know what, I am okay with that!
DS and we all grew up a lot this past year. I sent off my child and a young man returned. One that is more independent, smarter and starting to learn the ropes of independence. I did my job and I am so very proud of him.
Congrats to you, your DH and your DS job well done.
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