too many choices.
DH leans towards seafood
I want someplace either accessible by monorail,in EPCOT or on Boardwalk.
neither one of us wants to have to "dress up" as in suit or dress.
on the quieter side.
We love the Flying Fish at Boardwalk--especially for seafood. They do have a dress code, though. (no jacket and tie, but they do require the men to wear a collared shirt). San Angel Inn in Mexico has great romantic anniversary-ish ambiance.
The Flying Fish on the Boardwalk is an excellent restaurant. We think the chocolate souffle is one of the best desserts at Disney. They make an excellent steak there also if you do not want seafood.
If you want quiet, I would suggest making your reservation around 8:30 or later no matter where you choose to dine.