Thank you everyone; you have convinced me to change my itinerary!
I think we may skip ROL and concentrate on the scenery and riding EE (and any other rides we can fit in). I doubt we'll do FOP at closing since it's possible it could still be a 90 minute wait, and we can't be out that late after closing since we plan to rope drop the next day (with a 5 year old). However, if I can't score a fastpass for FOP at some point of my trip, then I will have to chance it at closing.
Thanks again everyone!