You do not have to do anything you do not want to do with gifts.
I think you should let grandparents do what they want. When your a grandmother you will understand. I think it was sweet of your friend to care about you DD daughters feelings. It can be very hard on a sibling on birthdays. Holidays & Birthdays are not the best time to make a point or learn a lesson. They are a HIGH STRESS time for young children.
Life hits you hard as an adult you learn lessons fast & are better able to deal with them. Everyday of childhood does not have to be bootcamp for your adult life.
I think you should let grandparents do what they want. When your a grandmother you will understand. I think it was sweet of your friend to care about you DD daughters feelings. It can be very hard on a sibling on birthdays. Holidays & Birthdays are not the best time to make a point or learn a lesson. They are a HIGH STRESS time for young children.
Life hits you hard as an adult you learn lessons fast & are better able to deal with them. Everyday of childhood does not have to be bootcamp for your adult life.
