Am I a bad person if.....

[zeitzeuge]

Big and beefy? They get all the lovin'.

Us slender (more PC then skinny ) guys are just out of luck.

 

[Gypsybear]

Big and beefy? They get all the lovin'.

Us slender (more PC then skinny ) guys are just out of luck.

Somehow me thinks you get plenty of "lovin", Mr. Z...

 

[zeitzeuge]

Somehow me thinks you get plenty of "lovin", Mr. Z...

Oh I get plenty from my beefy husbear. But hey, I'm TRYING to put on more weight.......it's just not workin'.

 

[Gypsybear]

Oh I get plenty from my beefy husbear. But hey, I'm TRYING to put on more weight.......it's just not workin'.

I can fix you up with some home cookin'.....I'm 1/2 italian and 1/2 mexican... I can cook...

And of course your hubby is more than welcome too, he just has to know that he'll pack them on too...

 

[Gypsybear]

Hey!

Being fat and bald isn't some punishment for being a jerk!

I'm a nice guy! I'm just a follically challenged foodie!

Amen!

 

[MonorailMan]

Big and beefy? They get all the lovin'.

Us slender (more PC then skinny ) guys are just out of luck.

Here in Columbus, the bear community tends to not only be cliquish, but they won't even talk to you if you're under 220. (It's one of the reasons I got away from the bear community.....at least around here.) There are some people, like me, who just don't have the "frame" to be beefy.

 

[DVC~OKW~96]

I was thin, then got really big (and had loads of health related problems) and have now lost bunches (and most of the health problems) and I can give you my word that people treat you differently based upon your size.

It wasn't a pleasant thing to learn. People who believe they are better than another person for ANY reason, not just appearance are truly sad individuals.

Basing your sense of self on something as fleeting as looks, is a definite road to despair.

Hope your miserable ex has learned something MM.

 

[kingLouiethe1]

I was thin, then got really big (and had loads of health related problems) and have now lost bunches (and most of the health problems) and I can give you my word that people treat you differently based upon your size.

They really do! One of the things I miss about being bigger is people don't get out of my way anymore. I guess I was more imposing when I was bigger

 

[ConcKahuna]

They really do! One of the things I miss about being bigger is people don't get out of my way anymore. I guess I was more imposing when I was bigger

Maybe now they just want to be in REALLY close quarters with you?

 

[MonorailMan]

I was thin, then got really big (and had loads of health related problems) and have now lost bunches (and most of the health problems) and I can give you my word that people treat you differently based upon your size.

It wasn't a pleasant thing to learn. People who believe they are better than another person for ANY reason, not just appearance are truly sad individuals.

Basing your sense of self on something as fleeting as looks, is a definite road to despair.

Hope your miserable ex has learned something MM.

I'm glad you're in better health now.

One of the entertaining factors (at least for me) about my ex is that he never learns life lessons very well.

They really do! One of the things I miss about being bigger is people don't get out of my way anymore. I guess I was more imposing when I was bigger

It could be imposing (and entertaining) if you happened to be a screamer. I've seen slender people who were more intimidating than 300-pound men if someone got in their way before they got a chance to get their morning cup of coffee.

 

[ConcKahuna]

It could be imposing (and entertaining) if you happened to be a screamer. I've seen slender people who were more intimidating than 300-pound men if someone got in their way before they got a chance to get their morning cup of coffee.

How would people in public know if he was a screamer? Unless he was REALLY loud?

 

[rpmdfw]

How would people in public know if he was a screamer? Unless he was REALLY loud?

Have you SEEN the pictures of KingLouie?

OF COURSE he's a screamer!

You can just tell by looking.

 

[soulmates]

Have you SEEN the pictures of KingLouie?

OF COURSE he's a screamer!

You can just tell by looking.

 

[ConcKahuna]

Have you SEEN the pictures of KingLouie?

OF COURSE he's a screamer!

You can just tell by looking.

Nothing wrong with that, I like a guy with some vocal talent!

 

[MonorailMan]

I heard parents were covering their childrens' ears and telling them, "Nevermind that, sweetie. They're just doing recordings for the Haunted Mansion."

 

[ConcKahuna]

I heard parents were covering their childrens' ears and telling them, "Nevermind that, sweetie. They're just doing recordings for the Haunted Mansion."

 

[mykidsintow]

 

[kingLouiethe1]

Have you SEEN the pictures of KingLouie?

OF COURSE he's a screamer!

You can just tell by looking.

Rosie! It's open season on Rob!

 

[MonorailMan]

 

[ConcKahuna]

I dont like popcorn. You have anything else I can snack on over there MM?