Personal attack: "You're stupid"
Not a personal attack: "I do not understand a thing you said."
I asked about the $20K thing because I'm not sure if my recollection is correct. Upon further reflection, I think she might not be the same girl who talked about the $20K loan.
Ok, fair 'nough. Because you said "this" and it was right below my post, I had thought you were calling me out.
Back on topic ...
If the quote was "lick my but", I must agree and say that I'm getting sick of people talking about "buts" all the time on VMK. It's the new annoying trend. In the last week, I've probably seen 20 uses of "but" inappropriately, from "nice but" to "I'm going to kick your but" (in pirates) to "up your but".
If I want that sort of stuff, I'll go play Second Life.