I am sure we would love the Wilderness Lodge, but I think we might be even happier with the Animal Kingdom. I would choose AKL immediately, except for my worries about the transportation. How difficult and how much time does it really take to get to the different parks? We will have a car available, but we would prefer to park it and leave it for the duration of our stay. From one of the guidebooks I have been using, it looks like both the drive and the bus ride to the Magic Kingdom would be very exhausting, especially at the end of the day with an exhausted, cranky 4-year-old. I would also like to go back to our room for a break in the middle of the day most days, and that might not be practical if we stay at the AKL.
I love Disney World so much, but my husband is not such a Disney fan, and has only spent 1 day there (a single man at Disney World is not something to try - he said he couldn't even enjoy watching the kids for worries of what the parents might think!). I really want to make this a fun, relaxing vacation for him so the next time I suggest Disney World for vacation, he will be as excited as I am!