I have been on three Disney Cruises, 2 7night cruises - and one 3 night.
I have never seen 'aggressive' sales tactics. As a matter of fact the person at the kiosk on deck 4 (Magic, Wonder) sometimes is so glued to their computer screen, they don't even acknowledge people as they walk by - which is a major 'no-no' in the marketing field, especially when you have a captive audience and you have the opportunity to learn a few names, and say HELLO! to them as they walk by - ask them about their day - what they are doing next etc etc.
The phone calls on each day of the cruise didn't bother us at all - we came home with a ton of cool
DVC Member stuff - backpacks, pins, luggage tags, lanyards, hats, the nice wooden box, etc, etc, etc. Which we really like!
Even though we have WAY too many hats now! LOL
BUT, I think you should be able to opt out of the phone calls etc. It's just practical and hospitable. I'm sure they will remove you from the call list if you ask. I can't imagine they wouldn't.
I always go to the presentations, I'm always excited to learn more about what's new and what's next - and what is happening with membership. Plus I usually come away with a pin or something.
Plus, a referral can never hurt!
