I was on the MV Dream and that was not our experience at all.
The member morning session was packed! We had fun and it was informative. Free Mimosas so my recollection could be cloudy, but I did not feel pressure. I had an old DVC hat on, and 1 of the team complimented me on my cap and we laughed that it was vintage
The new phone system/wave phone on the Dream, you get text messages and the phone barely rings in your stateroom. The messages were just like previous cruises, where they tell you about the presentations, or to stop by and get your special gifts.
We received a magnet on our door and the wooden box and lanyards in our stateroom. By attending the presentation, we received hats, shopping bag, lithos, and pens, and complimentary mimosas. Played a fun game, got to meet lots of members, heard about the incentives and we were free to go.
Stopped by the desk later to get the Cpt. Mickey pin for each of us. No selling, just gave me the pins.
I thought the selling was much more high pressure on the SS Member Cruise. They literally delayed debarkation at CC until after their presentation in the Walt Disney Theater. I was pretty peeved about that!
Ive been to high pressure TS in Mexico and Vegas so I know low class and tacky, and as much as I dislike that DVC has changed in terms of marketing, they would have to fall off the Empire State bldg, to get that low.