I went to the A/T this past July with my dd 9yrs.old. Just us. My dh wouldn't be caught dead having tea in the afternoon. We had such a great time. We were staying at the GF for our trip and made a nice afternoon by shopping at the gift shops and then going for tea. My dd doesn't drink hot tea, but they have all the teas there iced if you want. She had the rasberry tea. I had the same only the hot version. We both had tea sandwiches, scones,yummy strawberries & fantastic creme and little petit fores (sp?). It was a great afternoon together just the two of us. We made believe we were "high society", daintily using the napkin, pointing our pinky fingers. We had a blast. It felt like a special time for just the 2 of us. I have teenage dd's who didn't come with us for this vacation, they stayed home, worked and god only knows if they had any parties at the house while we were gone, so time alone with my younger one felt very special and I'm so glad we did the A/T. If you have a chance to do it with your dd, I say go for it and it will be a special time for both of you...