advice??

[eeyore.luver<3]

ok, i have a dilemna here:

last year i was really good friends with this girl, like, best friends...then at the end of the year our class did speeches on things we were passionately against (i chose animal testing)

all of a sudden she freaked out on me and said everything i believed in was fakke and made up (now, im very stubborn and steadfast...so this caused a MAJOR issue)

we ended the year w. many harsh words and each of us found new best friends

fast forward to this year:

i find out her lockers right next to mine and shes in my lab group and homeroom...uh-oh

so here i am, expecting the worst, and we start talking little by little...right now were on a wave, say hi, etc. kind of arrangement

fast forward to today:

she invites me to her b-day party this weekend...my other friend tells me tht shes really been wanting to invite me but wasnt sure if i wud come becuz itmight b awkward

im prob. gonna wind up going...but in the back of my mind cant let go of all the things she said to me last year...it really hurt me



im sooo confused and dont know what to do

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Go. Maybe things have changed. People have changed. If you don't go... you'll just be stuck wondering what would'ave happened if you went.

 

[minnie_2006]

She's making the effort to be friends with you again so you should perhaps make the effort to go to her party! I mean, we all fall out with our friends at some point but we always make up quickly! You should just try and forget the things she said. And I don't wanna seem like I'm down grading you but I'm sure you said some harsh things to her! You should be grateful that she wants to be friends again, it's better than you two not ever talking again. And also it's kinda a bit sad to hold a grudge against someone over a stupid argument, move on
Good luck

 

[Piglet1291]

Sticks and stones may break your bone but words should never hurt you!! I no words could hurt but go on with life cuz life is to short to fight. Go to the party and try to make things better. If you can try to hang out more (like go to the movies or something) and recreate your friendship!!

 

[BabyPiglet]

Sticks and stones may break your bone but words should never hurt you!! I no words could hurt but go on with life cuz life is to short to fight. Go to the party and try to make things better. If you can try to hang out more (like go to the movies or something) and recreate your friendship!!

Words hurt a lot. Words hurt more than bruises sometimes.

But I would go. You're young, she's making an effort to be friends again.

 

[CheezDoodle]

I'd go, inviting you seems like it's her way of saying 'I'm sorry and I want to be your friend again'.

 

[Babyjustrun]

You should go.
I was on the outs with one of my best friends last year, but we started talking again this year and we hang out a lot. She's basically my only good friend at the moment.

 

[Tinker Rose]

If I were you, I'd go 2, because it sounds like she wants to be friends with you again, but isn't sure if she should be, and if you guys used to have a good friendship, its better to go back and be happy again, then to go through life hating each other.

 

[DramaQueen]

I'd go, forgive & forget.
She's making an effort to try and be friends with yo uagain.
Maybe you guys just need to talk things out and it'll be over.

 

[lalastephanie]

Yeah like everyone else said, You should go.Maybe after you go and hang with her some then maybe when you get a chance to be with her alone talk with her about what she said to you and tell her she really did hurt you but you should also apologize to her for the stuff you've said to her too.