This is what I did......
Mom of three boys 15/12/10
Poor school teacher....watching her pennies all the way.....
I am a bargain shopper.....
After shopping several online travel sites, I realized that orbitz charges less if you just put in 2 adults rather than 2 adults and 2 children. The hotel that I chose was Comfort Inn Lake Buena Vista which does not charge for children or for 4 adults. They charge per room. At the time orbitz offered a 100.00 coupon for at 5+ night stay. I got the room for the week (7 nights) for 305.00. I called the hotel directly to confirm my ressie and changed it from 2 adults to 2 adults and 2 children - no problem. They had free breakfast. (Fruit, cereal, oatmeal, toast and doughnuts.) No protein so we were hungry at 11 for lunch.
I had a five minute drive to US/IOA. I bought a AP so I would not need to pay for parking ($11 per day). I picked up my AP after 6 when parking is free.
We napped every day at the hotel.
I bought the meal deal each day and the meal cup the first day. So food cost us 75.00 each day for 3 adults and one child. Yes, I passed off my 10 year old as a nine year old, but I had to watch my money. They kept asking my 12 year old if he had a kids band on. Regular meal prices ranged from 6.00 to 8.50. My boys ate more than one thing each seating and I did not have to buy drinks the rest of the trip.
I was there in late June w/o FOTL pass. Just get there early and hit the big rides, You can survive w/o FOTL pass. If it gets too crowded eat and take a nap and come back around 5, the crowds are thin then.
The hotel had a free shuttle but it left 9:30 and came back at 4:30. So we did not use it.
Hope this helps!