I started by researching menus and reviews for the restaurants we were interested in, like the Unofficial Guide, the podcast and WDWinfo.com. When the park hours are released, I figure out what parks we'll be at on each day. This year, I did Touring Plans so I'd know about where we'd be and when, so I could see which locations we'd be near around our normal meal times. This allowed me to narrow down the times I needed to try for. This year we are going to Crystal Palace (Winnie the Pooh & friends), Tusker House (Donald & friends), Be Our Guest (Beast) and Ohana (Lilo & Stitch). Our last trip we did Chef Mickey's and had a wonderful time (we don't mind noisy, we have small children after all!) plus we did Akershus for the princesses and it was more than worth it! Way more reasonable than Cinderella's Royal Table. We got to meet Cinderella, Ariel, Snow White, Aurora AND Belle...the place exceeded my expectations. At the time my daughter was 6 and my son was 3. This go-around the older ones are 8 and 6, plus we'll have a 1 yr old in the mix. Most little ones are not hard to please, just do your research so you know what to expect and what each venue offers.