I think bringing extended family or friends is a big deal. We brought my sister, BIL, and niece in a Riviera two-bedroom last year, and it was glorious! So much space. So fun to vacation together -- but they had their own half of the villa to do their own thing, and we spent time in the middle living section. There's no way we could afford to do that without
DVC.
We don't have involved grandparents, but MAN, if we could bring them and have them on hand for an additional set of hands with the kids, or even to just hang out in the room so we could get out for a bit as a couple, life changing on vacation! Plus, if you get along, wonderful memories.
I do quick meals and snacks/breakfast/coffee in the room, and that definitely saves money and is nice when we wanted to have popcorn and all were pigpiled on the Murphy bed and club chairs watching Jungle Cruise that visit. So fun!
The relaxed mindset of getting to the next park/ride/restaurant/ADR next time because you'll come back is awesome. My husband and kids appreciate I am no longer a park commando rope dropper, hustling everyone out of bed at 6:30 a.m.
The safety of the resorts IS nice. We can now leave the kids in the room and go upstairs for drinks and a meal at Topolinos since they're a bit older. I mobile order Mickey waffles for them sometimes when I don’t want to cook, and they’re totally fine fetching the food and finding their way back to us since the resort is compact (Riviera.)
Laundry I do every night since everything is gross and sweaty or has melted/dripped food stains on it. Having a baby/toddler, laundry will be life changing!
We only pack carryons and have become much more streamlined in our packing. So nice to come home at night and just unpack the packing cubes and go to bed knowing everything is done.
Having a room with a door for privacy, adult time, and naps is awesome! The baby can sleep in the Pack n' Play in the bathroom vestibule in the master (in one or two-bedrooms,) and the kids enjoy the living room as “their” space. When they’re teenagers and bring friends — or stay up all night long, we’ll get the two-bedrooms for them to be slobs/noisy/sleep until noon and we can enjoy the living room/kitchen for ourselves.
Forced vacations are a good thing for us. We’d never make it happen if we didn’t HAVE to use points, and we love it. We won’t always do WDW, but right now it’s the easiest option for me, mom, the planner. Renting beach houses can be a crapshoot if you are going in cold to a new area/home. Many times you have to bring linens and towels and still cook and clean — for thousands of dollars! WDW and Orlando have tons to do, and I like using it as a base of operations. We go to Universal from DVC and have loved resort-only stays. I would say that’s a benefit.