ACK...my first EBAY disaster! Please help!

[marcyinPA]

I have over 200 positive feedbacks and have really never had a problem, until recently. I had to file a non-paying bidder complaint with ebay because the buyer, with 0 feedback, won two of my auctions and has not paid and has not responded to my many emails (except for my first invoice, she did say she'd send me a m/o...but that was 11 days ago) and I haven't heard from her since.

She has not responded to the npb complaint yet....and I really doubt that this will get resolved What I need to know is if I can send a second chance offer to the next highest bidder of both auctions before this other thing gets resolved?

I'm pretty bummed, because it was "just clothing" but came to about $20 in profit for me, which is a nice hunk of change!

Also, when can I give her "appropriate" feedback? Do I have to wait the 7 days until the dispute is resolved?

 

[marcyinPA]

 

[angeleigh]

Yes - you can do the second chance offer now(if it has not been too long already) or relist. So far as leaving the appropriate feedback I would recommend you wait until all is done. In fact - I would wait til day 89 to leave the appropriate ugly negative feedback to give the least time possible for the expected retaliatory negative feedback they will leave you if you give them the opportunity.

 

[DMRick]

So far as leaving the appropriate feedback I would recommend you wait until all is done. In fact - I would wait til day 89 to leave the appropriate ugly negative feedback to give the least time possible for the expected retaliatory negative feedback they will leave you if you give them the opportunity.

That's gone by the wayside for the most part. If they have the auction number, and go to the auction and click on leave feedback, they generally can still leave feedback for quite some time past the 90 days. One board lister is up to 120 days! It may roll off your leave feedback list, but you can still do it from the auction.