A relationships thread, lets help each other better our relationships!

[Disney1fan2002]

There are some very smart people here on the CB. We all come from different walks of life, and we all have different life experiences.

Why don't we use out expertise in OUR life experience to help each other out? Sometimes, someone will post about their marriage/relationship being in trouble. They may get lots of good advice, but then when they don't take it they get chewed up and spit out. What if we can help someone who needs advice, but doesn't want to share their personal situation with us? Men don't understand women, and we don't understand men, so let's help each other out.

For instance, as a woman, I can say that if there are any men reading this who doesn't think their marriage needs a new twist, they are wrong! Settled into the the same old same old? Well, surprise your wife/gf and call her up at work, or home and pretend it is the 1st phone call you are making to her.(like you just met) You know that ackward chitter chatter. Then ask her out on a date. You may want to arrange for a babysitter ahead of time, so she doesn't have a reason to turn you down. When you "pick her up" for this date, bring her flowers. I can almost guarantee you will have a night like you haven't had in a looooong time!

Men, you can give us girls some ideas on what we can do to surprise/please our men.

 

[SwedishMeatball]

Men, you can give us girls some ideas on what we can do to surprise/please our men.

I see lots of "get nekkid" posts coming.

 

[Pop Daddy]

get nekkid

 

[Disney1fan2002]

I see lots of "get nekkid" posts coming.

Now men can't be all THAT shallow, there has to be something else...oh nevermind!

 

[Froggyswife]

My frogman does a couple of things that I just love so men listen up.

He will send me flowers "just because" and I'm not just talking flowers from a flower shop all the time he will pick some roses from our own garden and arrange them in a vase for me "just because".

He cooks dinner for me (note if you can't cook don't try this.)

He will leave me little notes telling me he loves me and he misses me during the day.

In short little things mean a lot to women. You don't always have to buy expensive presents (except on valentines day, birthdays, anniversary, and Christmas....or if you have a guilty conscience)

 

[Ludacris]

Now men can't be all THAT shallow, there has to be something else...oh nevermind!

we be dat shall0w.


dat "just because" flower stuff...axe dem in bout 20 years.

 

[ckret01]

My frogman does a couple of things that I just love so men listen up.

He will send me flowers "just because" and I'm not just talking flowers from a flower shop all the time he will pick some roses from our own garden and arrange them in a vase for me "just because".

He cooks dinner for me (note if you can't cook don't try this.)

He will leave me little notes telling me he loves me and he misses me during the day.

In short little things mean a lot to women. You don't always have to buy expensive presents (except on valentines day, birthdays, anniversary, and Christmas....or if you have a guilty conscience)

That is totally sweet

 

[FroggyinArk]

My frogman does a couple of things that I just love so men listen up.

He will send me flowers "just because" and I'm not just talking flowers from a flower shop all the time he will pick some roses from our own garden and arrange them in a vase for me "just because".

He cooks dinner for me (note if you can't cook don't try this.)

He will leave me little notes telling me he loves me and he misses me during the day.

In short little things mean a lot to women. You don't always have to buy expensive presents (except on valentines day, birthdays, anniversary, and Christmas....or if you have a guilty conscience)

most recently, i brought her breakfast in bed on her b day, and put our daughters up to making her birthday extra special, from 42 candles scattered through the day, to me sending hte girls out to get moms presents and not bringing her one just from me, then a week later i took her out and bought her new shirts to go with her new hairdo.

as for what she does for me,, to keep the fires burning,,


if she knows i've hada bad day or am hurting, she will have supper cooked when i get in, she calls me during hte day to say hi, and see how i am, she puts up with my smart mouth and me in general, and she makes sure i know she appreciate what i do for her.




( she said i couldnt just say get nekkid)

 

[Pee Wee Herman]

When me and my wife fight, I like to go let off steam by going to the movies by myself

 

[Froggyswife]

we be dat shall0w.


dat "just because" flower stuff...axe dem in bout 20 years.

Actually we just celebrated our 9 year anniversary. We have been together as a couple for 12.

 

[Froggyswife]

most recently, i brought her breakfast in bed on her b day, and put our daughters up to making her birthday extra special, from 42 candles scattered through the day, to me sending hte girls out to get moms presents and not bringing her one just from me, then a week later i took her out and bought her new shirts to go with her new hairdo.

as for what she does for me,, to keep the fires burning,,


if she knows i've hada bad day or am hurting, she will have supper cooked when i get in, she calls me during hte day to say hi, and see how i am, she puts up with my smart mouth and me in general, and she makes sure i know she appreciate what i do for her.




( she said i couldnt just say get nekkid)

You can say get nakkid not JUST get nakkid.

Getting nakkie does help alot though.

 

[FroggyinArk]

You can say get nakkid not JUST get nakkid.

Getting nakkie does help alot though.

i would but hte kids home..maybe another night?

 

[tmt martins]

Now men can't be all THAT shallow, there has to be something else...oh nevermind!

It's not being Shallow we are just very simple in our real needs.

As I'm about to hit my 14th Ann in about a hour and a half Not long but most of our friends have been through two or more marriges all I can say is

Pick your battles ,comprimising is always good,and yes Changing things up is a good thing.

Alone time does not have to be at a bar or stripclub with friends until 2am .


For you ladies well you know what we want and it's that simple.Once in awhile a nice drink out of the blue while remote surfing is good as well.

Don't expect us to know what you want instead of dropping a hint drop a note and it will get done after all we do want to please you as well.

 

[tmt martins]

When me and my wife fight, I like to go let off steam by going to the movies by myself

Just stay away from the POPCORN PEE WEE