Hello! I'm Ellen aka Benji2012... Im a long time reader of the boards, but a first time poster and trip report writer, but I hope to have a great story to tell, and Id love for you to come along for the ride. 
This PTR originally started as a way to plan my 40th Birthday extravaganza&and that is still going to be a huge part&Im also going to be using it to plan that event&but I also going to use it for the In Between Trips too&one of which will hopefully be Aulani!!
The story behind the big 4-0 trip!
While helping a friend research her Disney Fairytale Wedding, the idea for the Epic 40th Birthday Celebration was born.
It started as an unattainable dream, hatched into a possibility, and now is slowly evolving into an actual plan&which in due time will become a reality.
Welcome to my pre-trip report! Im Ellen and I will be your VIP All access guide for this celebration 4 day/3 night Epic extravaganza! Seat belt checks will be around the corner.
I love weddings. I love hearing all the little details my friend-brides and grooms tell me about teapot centerpieces and flower seed paper favors. Its like watching our love grow! they gush.
Ive bought Bride magazine and checked out The Knot on more than one occasion.
Problem is, I dont think marriage was ever actually in the cards for me. I love my career, I love my independence, and I LOVE
being an AUNT, which means I get to be awesome 24/7 forever.
My prince charming came in the form of a been there, done that kind of guy, who didnt see marriage in his future.
I know this strikes many people as odd&or even, what the right word here&bad? Wrong? I usually tell those that every day I wake up and say; I choose to be with this man. To me, that is love. (The Epic celebration will also mark our 10 year anniversary.) P.S. I am not anti-marriage, its just not for me.
This has something to do with the story I promise&
One day, I jokingly, lovingly, and ok&hopefully said to Thad, You know, since I never made you marry me, the least you could do is throw me an epic birthday party at Disney World.
To which he said, Okay.
Really?...I mean, you remember how much some of that stuff cost right? I said referring to some info I shared with him while helping my friend research her wedding.
Not really, but okay anyway. Wait, is the Grand I one of the options? Lets do that.
Um, well, I was thinking of a dessert party at Illuminations, I was at a loss for words.
That too then.
I sat there for a minute dumbfounded.
Then he looked at me dead in the eye and said those words that I longed to here, You know you have to plan the whole thing right?
Thats pretty much like saying, Unleash the hounds!
Internet, books, magazines, and of course&pinterest. My friends keep calling it the destination wedding without the wedding.[/CENTER]

This PTR originally started as a way to plan my 40th Birthday extravaganza&and that is still going to be a huge part&Im also going to be using it to plan that event&but I also going to use it for the In Between Trips too&one of which will hopefully be Aulani!!
The story behind the big 4-0 trip!
While helping a friend research her Disney Fairytale Wedding, the idea for the Epic 40th Birthday Celebration was born.
It started as an unattainable dream, hatched into a possibility, and now is slowly evolving into an actual plan&which in due time will become a reality.
Welcome to my pre-trip report! Im Ellen and I will be your VIP All access guide for this celebration 4 day/3 night Epic extravaganza! Seat belt checks will be around the corner.
I love weddings. I love hearing all the little details my friend-brides and grooms tell me about teapot centerpieces and flower seed paper favors. Its like watching our love grow! they gush.
Ive bought Bride magazine and checked out The Knot on more than one occasion.

Problem is, I dont think marriage was ever actually in the cards for me. I love my career, I love my independence, and I LOVE

My prince charming came in the form of a been there, done that kind of guy, who didnt see marriage in his future.
I know this strikes many people as odd&or even, what the right word here&bad? Wrong? I usually tell those that every day I wake up and say; I choose to be with this man. To me, that is love. (The Epic celebration will also mark our 10 year anniversary.) P.S. I am not anti-marriage, its just not for me.
This has something to do with the story I promise&
One day, I jokingly, lovingly, and ok&hopefully said to Thad, You know, since I never made you marry me, the least you could do is throw me an epic birthday party at Disney World.

To which he said, Okay.

Not really, but okay anyway. Wait, is the Grand I one of the options? Lets do that.
Um, well, I was thinking of a dessert party at Illuminations, I was at a loss for words.
That too then.
I sat there for a minute dumbfounded.
Then he looked at me dead in the eye and said those words that I longed to here, You know you have to plan the whole thing right?
Thats pretty much like saying, Unleash the hounds!

Internet, books, magazines, and of course&pinterest. My friends keep calling it the destination wedding without the wedding.[/CENTER]