i hear you. i guess i just think that so far all we have is a survey, right? no confirmation that the resort fee is going to happen? and in response, there's what, 6 different threads on this topic? I think the DIS needs a whole new board dedicated to complaints to free up the theme park strategies board.
i'll also disagree that the only reason people stay on site is to get an extra 30 day jump on FP+, and a bus ride from the airport. when we stayed on site, it was about being immersed in Disney. it was about getting that voice message from Mickey. it was about seeing characters in the lobby. it was about boat rides to MK. there's no way i'd pay the crazy prices for on-site just to get a ride from the airport and the unnecessary 30 extra days to bood FPs. know what i'm sayin? ymmv.
We stayed onsite for the convenience and the immersion in the ambience of the entire resort, particularly at night. The Poly was our happy place and one of our top Disney memories was dragging ourselves off of the monorail at night, heading down the ramp, through the TTC and over to the path that led into a tiki torch lit wonderland. More than once after a long, exhausting day at the parks where we felt we could barely walk another step to get out of the park, we'd arrive back at the resort and find ourselves with the energy for "just a quick stroll around the pathways". Couldn't get enough.
The entirety of WDW was filled with the potential of little experiences like that all day long, around any corner you happened to wander along. Things really began to change for us when that level of ambiance, the feeling you could just meander until something piqued your interest, a bench with a snack, a street performance, a larger attraction, a shop with a great window display of merchandise you didn't just see racks and racks of at the hotel giftshop on your way out that morning -- and decide on the spot to stop and look, enjoy or get in line to ride or view. When the calm nooks with a bench or two began disappearing altogether or having their landscaping and surroundings cutback to the point the calm disappeared it was a big loss. When crowd levels soared to the point you felt either herded around in a great mass all day or penned behind cattle gates waiting for your chance to get on an attraction or into a show and your turn finally came and the seats in the theater were grubby or upholstery was worn down or ripped or several effects on the ride weren't functioning or there were giant cobwebs hanging above your head on the boatride it felt very unconvincingly Disney and more like something you could pay much less for elsewhere.
We look at the Poly pricing of $400 plus a night, know the monorail service hours are cutback, know the resort has had changes and cutbacks, know the MK is always chock full of visitors and know that it's simply not possible to wander along, decide Pirates sounds fun today, hop in line and skip out 45 minutes later feeling a pirates life was fun. Nope, you needed to book that prior, arrive at the appropriately scheduled time, ride and emerge and assess your wet footwear situation. Yeah, now you're free to "wander" to a gift shop, cart, quick service restaurant or restroom without preplanning ahead. Beyond that it's probably pretty slim pickings if you don't have something booked -- and of course if you do you might find yourself hobbling to make it there because your wet feet are blistering. Maybe a pirates' life isn't for you anymore afterall.
Disney used to be a vacation you could very loosely plan and know that once you were there, in the bubble, all the work was done and it was time to have fun. Now it's easy to find yourself "on the clock". I do that in everyday life. If I'm going to be on pretty heavy planning and scheduling mode on my vacation, I can do that elsewhere with a wider variety of options, price points, and quite frankly often much more quality -- particularly when including the factors of dining and lodging. Disney no longer offers the carefree vacation advantage anymore. That's been a huge turnoff for us.