I'm so proud of my son right now. I just have to share.
My DS15 goes to a specialized school for kids with Asperger's. He was mainstreamed through elementary school, but middle school was a nightmare and he was transferred a few months into his 6th grade year. He's been making progress on his social skills, but he's mostly focused on himself and his own things.
A few weeks ago, a girl from his old school district was transferred to his school. He hadn't seen her in three years but said he was happy that she would be in his class and riding the same bus. This girl does not have Asperger's. She had brain cancer at a very young age. The radiation treatment left her with some learning disabilities and problems with social skills. Also, her hair is very thin on top from the cancer treatments.
The girl and her mom called me tonight to ask if I knew what happened on the bus yesterday morning. My son hadn't said anything so they filled me in. Apparently, three other girls were making fun of my son's friend. They were saying mean things about her hair and calling her names. She said she was about to cry when my son turned around and said, "Stop teasing her. You're not being nice. Leave her alone!" The girls were shocked because my son doesn't usually say much or get involved in these things and they stopped immediately. When they got off the bus, my son told his friend to make sure the bus driver knew what happened. Then, he took her to the program director to make sure she told him.
This girl and her mom were so grateful that my son stood up for her and then made sure she reported the incident. The mom wanted him to know she was proud of him and grateful for his help. Of couse, Mr. Humble didn't tell me a thing. When I asked him about it, he got this sheepish smile on his face and said, "Well, I couldn't just sit there while they teased my friend." I said, "You did such an awesome thing and I'm so proud of you!" He put his arms out because he just knew a hug was coming next!
This may seem minor to most parents of 15-year olds, but it was a huge deal for my son and a proud mommy moment for me. Thanks for indulging me!
You should also be proud of yourself for raising such a great person. Often times even as adults people do not stand up for others, so your son's courage is amazing. Keep up the good work. 
