My immediate family is in NY, other in NE area (VT, MA, NH, etc), He is from Texas, his family is in TX & OK. He was married before and his ex resides in Alaska with his 2 children (who are in the wedding). No matter where we have the wedding EVERYBODY would have to travel, why not make it a place you can vacation & that caters to tourists and it's Disney!!! Plus alot of my family is making it their vacation.
My hubby is active duty army & a beach wedding didn't fit him (he spent 15 mos in Kuwait in the desert).
A few family members are flying in for 2-3 days and cannot spend the entire time the rest of our families are so a cruise was out.
If I were to have a true NY wedding I would be broke!!! Why invite 200 people to a NY wedding whom you barely know (and who your MIL or Mom has on their list) when you can select the 35 people that MUST be there & share in your day.
So why Disney? The hospitality of their cast members, the magical memories of when I was child and growing up will now carry well into my adult years. And where else can you have Mickey Mouse (the real one) at your wedding to dance with???